tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-757775527552175902012-01-27T01:32:23.293-05:00A blog describing the behaviour and inadequacies of women in Toronto and the surrounding area. These are my brutally honest and uncensored opinions. Keep in mind that what I say doesn't necessarily describe women in other parts of the world. So if you live somewhere else my writings might not always apply to your particular location. But if you're a man living in or near Toronto, this blog is for you.Johnnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1101100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-66235173236213676792012-01-21T15:34:00.001-05:002012-01-21T15:50:36.333-05:00

This is a great video made by a woman explaining with numerous examples how men are denigrated and belittled in western culture, all in the name of feminism (taken to radical extremes). Now, although most women are not radical feminists, most women have been affected by radical feminism. As a result, most modern western women, by default, carry around at least some anti-male attitudes, and this

Johnnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-60517063846529536342011-12-11T12:32:00.002-05:002011-12-11T12:35:46.141-05:00

Women using the internet to meet men always complain about the lack of good responses from men. Well, in addition to the women being too picky there's another good reason why the responses seem "inadequate". It's the lack of substance in the women's profiles which give the men nothing to work with. You get all these women writing boring, cookie-cutter internet profiles, which in turn invites

Johnnoreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-3586619658027107322011-11-02T21:29:00.014-04:002012-01-12T17:55:07.216-05:00

I recently read a very interesting paper written by Roy F. Baumeister (Department of Psychology, Florida State University ) and Kathleen D. Vohs (Faculty of Commerce, Marketing Division, University of British Columbia). The name of the paper is Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions. In this paper the authors give some pretty solid arguments on

Johnnoreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-30671061981969128032011-11-02T00:15:00.003-04:002011-12-28T12:19:05.990-05:00

It's like an urban myth that being an asshole gets you women. I never found a lot of truth in that. To me it seems that being an asshole is kind of like using PUA methods, where they are at best marginally effective, and can only slightly enhance attraction that is already there. The problem with being an asshole is the same as the problem with being a nice guy, it's viewed as a type of extreme

Johnnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-39389582365208300512011-09-29T15:15:00.010-04:002011-11-02T21:53:31.465-04:00

• Dismissing someone's comments because he's bitter because he can't get laid is like dismissing the owner of a crappy car when he complains that the car is a piece of shit. DUH, when else are you supposed to complain, when the car runs well? The most natural response to a crappy situation is to complain about it, so if a guy complains about women because he "can't get laid" then maybe, just

Johnnoreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-57286635067986127912011-09-08T13:33:00.004-04:002011-11-10T22:26:54.453-05:00

Not all of them. I will admit that I say some pretty negative things about women in this city, but that does not apply to all of them. There actually are quite a few genuinely sweet and nice women in this city, but my feeling is that the overwhelming majority of these women come from the pool of the older and/or less attractive ones. These women are sexually unattractive and/or are 40-50 years

Johnnoreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-56997451125156953112011-09-08T13:32:00.000-04:002011-09-08T13:33:50.205-04:00

This is how Toronto women start off their relationships, by asking men what they do for a living. It's a quick way for them to size us up financially, socially, and economically. And unlike what some say, it's usually not a "get to know you question". It usually goes well beyond simple curiosity. They want to evaluate your social status, pure and simple.Now, I will admit that it is understandable

Johnnoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-78120184368719899272011-08-24T14:59:00.002-04:002011-08-24T15:10:28.643-04:00

Here's a submission from a reader who asked that I publish his thoughts on the Toronto dating scene. ***** Toronto, the world’s capital of misandry I moved to Toronto 4 years ago and my life has changed dramatically ever since. I have become a deeply unmotivated individual, taking anti-depressants for the very first time and waking up every morning trying to find meaning to what I am doing.

Johnnoreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-80678321001174258372011-08-23T20:55:00.005-04:002011-10-24T14:35:45.497-04:00

I talked about this a lot in my other post The clique culture. Basically, the overwhelming majority of couples in the city are a result of meeting through school, work, or friends. The big three. These are the socially accepted channels through which you can best hope to meet someone. If you aren't connected through any of these channels, you pretty much have no alternative other than what I call

Johnnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-80956086097064089852011-08-19T14:02:00.008-04:002011-10-25T01:17:03.027-04:00

I think the best starting point for this discussion is to imagine yourself (a man) being in a place surrounded by attractive women with none of them approaching you or giving you signals of interest. If this continues you will either say "screw it" and not bother trying at all, or you will start approaching the women yourself and try to make things happen that way.In fact, this is the default

Johnnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-29643198106342614022011-08-02T20:05:00.005-04:002011-08-04T14:06:34.619-04:00

What if the situation was reversed and men were the ones who were opposed to meeting women in public? What kind of excuses would men use to avoid meeting women in public? Using the same excuse format women use, along with exaggerated statistics and focusing on the negative, I came up with a hypothetical excuse list that men would use:• When I'm out somewhere I'm too busy to make small talk with

Johnnoreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-46182349870117498022011-06-10T00:15:00.005-04:002011-11-02T21:16:26.282-04:00

I've been thinking about the merits of prostitution and it occurs to me that in the past I've had a somewhat biased view against it. I realize now that it's actually a good thing to have, especially for males who have gone for extended periods of time without female companionship. That said, these are the reasons I've come up with in favor of prostitution:• You are only spending money, as opposed

Johnnoreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-25291755255641977932011-03-22T00:28:00.002-04:002011-03-23T22:05:24.657-04:00

The clique culture works like this. You form a close-knit group of friends as soon as possible and then everyone else can pretty much fuck off.Cliques are typically formed early on in school and the workplace, but especially in school since the formation period usually occurs when there are a lot of new people and they don't know each other. So they immediately go into clique forming mode. Note

Johnnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-45124999336994608412011-03-15T15:11:00.007-04:002011-06-10T00:13:56.166-04:00

These are the common obstacles you have to go through in order to meet a quality woman in a public place. They occur in the following order:1. She ignores you when you try to start a conversation with her.2. She doesn't ignore you but avoids eye contact and keeps responses short.3. She gives good responses and is looking at you when talking to you, but only with polite conversation (not genuine

Johnnoreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-2334871111642098922010-11-16T19:21:00.001-05:002010-11-16T19:30:31.606-05:00

The more choice you have, the less enthusiastic you are about your choices. This statement nicely summarizes the consumer attitude many women in this culture have towards men in the dating scene.This video by Barry Schwartz (posted below), describes in detail how people in general react when faced with too many choices. But you can easily extend this to the dating scene, where women are

Johnnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-44370369006632210912010-08-20T11:54:00.001-04:002010-08-20T13:48:06.182-04:00

I've always been puzzled why it's such a bad thing to just want sex. What the hell is wrong with sex? So many people act like it's a bad thing to want sex as a stand-alone item. To me this is a strong indicator of a society that has not fully accepted sexuality as a normal and natural thing. This society is so fucked up in the way it views sex. It sees sex as inherently dirty but as long as you

Johnnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-71597354993582194282010-08-20T11:50:00.002-04:002010-08-20T13:39:24.356-04:00

A lot of men (and some women) argue that women are justified in being very picky because they (unlike men) can get pregnant. So as a result, women are forced to exercise more caution in mate selection since a mistake is much more "costly".Now, I will agree that there is some truth to this statement. Women are naturally going to be a bit more selective than men since they carry more of the risk,

Johnnoreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-15700247038493938352010-08-12T16:13:00.003-04:002010-08-12T16:20:07.407-04:00

According to Jennifer Aniston in her interview with People, women don't have to settle with a man just to have a child. Her view comes on the heels of her new movie The Switch, in which she plays a woman who becomes a mother by using donated sperm.Aniston, like so many feminized women, have swallowed the idea that "Women can have it all", which is often just a way of snubbing their nose at men in

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-72751163221367773612010-08-11T22:32:00.002-04:002010-08-12T12:25:40.509-04:00

This one nugget of truth will prove how messed up the dating scene really is. Ahem...It is much easier for a man (such as myself) to go out and pick up another man than it is to pick up a woman. That's it. That's all the proof you need.If I was gay I could get tons of action on a regular basis, with no bullshit and no stupid games whatsoever. Now isn't that interesting. In this culture it is much

Johnnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-77588686144269590452010-08-11T21:48:00.002-04:002011-05-14T13:04:56.706-04:00

Toronto women are feminine only in the biological sense. Their behaviour and mannerisms are wholly unfeminine. Furthermore, they seem incapable of flirting. To them, the idea of giving an attractive stranger signals of interest is a totally alien concept to them. They just stare straight ahead with looks ranging from complete indifference to outright hostility at being looked at. It's a shame

Johnnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-67667540527505092302010-08-11T20:58:00.001-04:002010-08-11T21:03:31.044-04:00

Most women in this culture approach relationships like a business, a for-profit business. And just like in a business they demand long hours, hard work, and unwavering company loyalty. This tyrannical view that women have towards relationships is responsible for much of the friction that couples experience.Women basically treat relationships as a third party, or separate entity, which is distinct

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-39926792241088674582010-08-11T19:38:00.001-04:002010-08-11T22:57:17.369-04:00

I've always strived to be as honest as I can with women. But I also came to realize that there are instances where lying to women is acceptable.You see, women lie to themselves all the time, and many of those lies are delusional. For example, some common lies women like to tell themselves are:• I can hold off indefinitely until I find Mr. Perfect and I'll always have my pick of the litter even

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-63984423446891949412010-08-11T18:04:00.000-04:002010-08-11T18:05:46.607-04:00

There's a website called Wingwomen which allows men to sign up for the Wing Woman service. This service pairs up men with one or more women when they go out on the town. This is done in order to boost men's attractiveness in the eyes of other women, thereby making it easier for the men to hook up.I know from experience that being seen with other women makes other women take more notice of me, so

Johnnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-6587155675873212072010-08-11T16:59:00.002-04:002010-08-11T17:03:40.230-04:00

This one got me thinking — maybe a better title for this post would be: The one reason women would never use to get dressed up, when going out on the town.The reason is this: To attract and meet men.Women in this culture never get dressed up to attract and meet men when going to any public place. I know it might seem like they do, but their actions clearly prove that they don't. The real reasons

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-3214924715812508002010-08-09T23:37:00.004-04:002011-08-03T10:54:11.670-04:00

A search on the internet reveals a lot of negative opinions on the behaviour of women in the U.S. But I can tell you that Canadian women are not better. And in some places, such as Toronto and area, the women are among the worst of the worst. It's something that has become more and more evident as time went on. The thing is that the coldness and aloofness of women here is so COMMON that it

Johnnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-18310382385784593652010-08-09T17:46:00.001-04:002010-08-09T17:51:51.758-04:00

What is it with this insane preoccupation so many people have with teenagers having sex? What's wrong with teenagers having sex? I personally believe it's perfectly normal and acceptable for teenagers to engage in consensual sexual activity, especially with each other. It's called experimenting and having fun, and as long as teens strive to do it in a responsible manner (birth control, condoms,

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-10377064968546782042010-08-07T13:41:00.003-04:002010-08-07T14:08:36.572-04:00

Ladies' Night is a time-honoured bullshit, which has never done anything good for men. It is just a way for women to get something for free while pretending that they are entitled to it based on the propaganda that "men have it so much better than women, so Ladies' Night is the least we can get as compensation". It's just another form of chivalry gone wrong. It might work in a patriarchal society

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-76244805945333058302010-08-06T15:18:00.001-04:002010-08-06T15:22:08.858-04:00

I'm sure by now a lot of people in Toronto have heard of Dimitri The Lover (real name, James Sears). He calls himself Canada's greatest seducer. I've listened to and read some of his stuff and it's a lot different from the usual PUA crap. His style is similar to that of Paul Janka; basically just approach tons of women and by the law of averages you will get laid. And that's certainly true, but

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-46254284283863891882010-08-05T14:44:00.002-04:002010-08-05T14:47:32.351-04:00

This culture is sexually uptight, and one example of this is the insistence that monogamy is the only model for relationship success. Anything else and you're a failure. The justifications for monogamy are basically just appeals to ego, and the use of shaming language whenever possible. There is really no rational reason why people should feel like they have to be monogamous. I mean, sure the

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-17961837147072535322010-08-04T17:25:00.006-04:002011-10-06T19:55:32.970-04:00

Over at http://heartiste.wordpress.com a blogger named Roissy has earned himself quite the following among wannabe PUAs. His strategies on how to game women in order to get laid are cut from the same cloth as most everything you can find in the PUA community. He pulls no punches, and in his view, men are perfectly justified in pulling out all the stops in order to acquire sex from hot women.

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-2599131892305979462010-07-12T18:37:00.023-04:002010-07-13T12:25:20.656-04:00

The book Marry Him: The Case For Settling For Mr. Good Enough, written by Lori Gottlieb, has created quite a stir. In this book she humbly and systematically gives an overview of the train wreck that is commonly known as the western woman. As a 40-something woman herself, she provides keen insight into why so many women reject good decent men because they aren't "good enough". The book reads

Johnnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-39137322733292976492010-03-23T20:08:00.005-04:002010-03-24T01:31:59.911-04:00

This is probably long overdue, but the club environment has become too toxic for me. I cannot go into a club anymore and not leave without a feeling of disgust afterwards. This was never that much of a problem for me in the past, but now it’s like an allergic reaction, which I can’t shake. So what’s the cause you might be asking?It’s the women!Quite literally, the women ruin the fucking clubs! It

Johnnoreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-34289059546819830412010-02-26T19:38:00.003-05:002010-02-26T19:55:58.351-05:00

I put together a list of things men can do to fight back against modern day feminism, spoiled women, and the anti-male bias that exists in popular culture:• Don't go to bars and clubs on ladies night. Boycott it. Ladies night is unconstitutional and discriminatory. It says that it's okay for women to get something for free, but not men. So by not going you are protesting this. Let "ladies night

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-64649165160374655792009-12-20T00:03:00.008-05:002009-12-20T00:16:51.208-05:00

There is a simple way to determine which bars and clubs are good for meeting women.It's a simple test you can perform while at the place. Think of it as an assessment. It involves two basic steps, in order.The first step is to be in passive mode and just enjoy the scenery. Keep your body language relaxed and open, and move around so you're as visible as possible. You can have a drink as you're

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-74131294395187625762009-12-18T21:37:00.024-05:002010-07-12T17:10:42.939-04:00

With the new year just around the corner there comes the promise of change, and a chance to reflect on the past year and the years before that.It's a time for optimism and also a time to move on to greener pastures. That time, where women are concerned, has arrived for me.I wrote once before that the time will probably come when I blacklist women from certain parts. I am almost at that point.

Johnnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-78766835461411344312009-11-24T21:17:00.000-05:002009-11-24T21:19:10.154-05:00

It's easy to believe that women are justified in wanting men who take them out and spend money on them because men want women who are attractive. So you could say it's a fair trade-off.But this is not the case.Men want attractive women for the simple reason that it turns us on more. Simply put, attractive women are more sexually appetizing to us.However, taking a woman out on a traditional date

Johnnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-42855370683649759652009-11-15T01:56:00.006-05:002009-11-15T02:14:06.331-05:00

The quality of a woman goes down the harder you have to work to get her. The reason for this is pretty straightforward. A woman's sexuality and views towards sex influence her in large part on who she is as a person. Unlike a man who can compartmentalize different areas of his life, including sex, and keep them fairly independent of one another, a woman's sexual views cannot be kept separate from

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-2972473813188219862009-10-20T17:01:00.009-04:002009-10-22T00:04:23.408-04:00

It's been on my mind for a long time how I can balance meeting women with maintaining a fulfilling life, which doesn't involve women. For a few years now I have strived to make women a byproduct of my life, while still being successful with them. My main motivation for doing this is to remove all the wasted effort and minimize the time spent with women who are a waste of time (which happens to be

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-59346477198587991572009-10-12T16:09:00.007-04:002009-10-13T15:53:30.767-04:00

Feminism has mostly affected my life in the dating sphere. It has made it difficult for me to meet women by creating the presumption of guilt and inadequacy in women's minds where men are concerned.Feminism has also contributed to fear and insecurity in the minds of women, by enslaving them to popular opinion and public approval rather than teaching them how to think for themselves.It has

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-41352072668657426072009-10-07T17:35:00.002-04:002009-10-07T17:47:13.774-04:00

I regularly get compliments on my looks, from both men and women. Usually the people giving the compliments assume that it must be easy for me to get women, because I'm so "good looking". It's hard for them to imagine that this is not the case. And in fact, it is not the case. Most times women will give me a second look but that's where it usually ends, and things progress no further.Now, to be

Johnnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-33958445241431796192009-10-04T14:37:00.010-04:002009-10-07T14:10:01.072-04:00

I have concluded that most women are prostitutes. I know this because my sex life has been sporadic for years, and I can't rely on any woman for steady, reliable sex. It turns out I've taken myself out of the market for steady, reliable sex for one simple reason: I refuse to "pay" for it.I tell women upfront that I don't want a relationship or commitment, and that I just want to have no strings

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-64248798061572517722009-09-29T13:17:00.004-04:002009-09-29T13:29:47.848-04:00

The following is a typical list of notable female inventions you might find online. Alphabet blocks Adeline D. T. Whitney 1882 Apgar tests, which evaluate a baby’s health upon birth Virginia Apgar 1952 Chocolate-chip cookies Ruth Wakefield 1930 Circular saw Tabitha Babbitt 1812 Dishwasher Josephine Cochran 1872 Disposable diaper Marion Donovan 1950 Electric hot water heater Ida Forbes 1917

Johnnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-6373235739617666362009-09-19T17:57:00.011-04:002009-09-22T14:19:25.219-04:00

There's a saying that women are the choosers. That may be true if men are always willing to say yes, but as soon as we start (selectively) saying no, then it's no longer true.As men, it's important to get out of the "pursuing" mindset where women are concerned. It can only help us.Keep in mind that many women reject many decent men for petty reasons, so it's only fair that men start rejecting

Johnnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-70006143140601568772009-09-17T15:13:00.007-04:002009-09-17T19:52:39.357-04:00

It's hilarious to hear the justifications for why women do some of the things they do, such as why they hold grudges much longer than men — it's often said it's because women have a better memory than men. Wrong, they are just pettier and less forgiving. Another commonly held view is, since the female brain has more communication between the left and right hemispheres, women are better at

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-24863330292329781332009-09-09T22:13:00.002-04:002009-09-09T22:18:22.512-04:00

The seduction community likes to tout that women are the same everywhere, which means that you should be equally successful or unsuccessful anywhere. I totally disagree with this. Women are not the same everywhere, just like cultures are not the same everywhere. Turn on the news and see just how different some parts of the world are. Even in one city there can be great differences between

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-4383605087595400022009-09-09T22:12:00.018-04:002009-09-11T16:48:37.115-04:00

I'm better than her because I am approaching.But I approach to see what she's like, not because I want to get with her. I have to find out what she's like first. So my mind isn't made up one way, or the other.I approach and engage her in conversation, and if she doesn't hook relatively soon I move on. I don't think about what I could have done differently. Experience has taught me that all you

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-18199565148230159852009-09-02T17:12:00.001-04:002009-09-02T17:14:23.603-04:00

Good question.But the question shouldn't be "where", but "who".Who are the best women?What do they do?What are their interests?Well, I have a theory, and so far it's holding up pretty well.The best women are the ones who have a serious passion and are courageous enough and intelligent enough to pursue it, no matter what.In other words, entrepreneurial (self-employed) women. These women are

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-62385724361729031572009-08-29T19:27:00.004-04:002009-08-29T23:49:58.920-04:00

Out of curiosity I used the Google Keyword tool, and typed in different keywords to see how many people were looking up how to approach men, or women. Google Keywords is very useful because it gives you the search volume for keywords you specify, which is useful for internet marketers, and guys like me who just want basic info.I typed in common keywords people might type in Google, such as: "

Johnnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-83554297221368218562009-08-29T00:53:00.004-04:002009-08-29T01:06:04.220-04:00

I've often wondered how much I am to blame for the bad things I've experienced with women, especially those things that have repeated themselves over and over. Was I the cause of that somehow? It's definitely worth considering. There's a saying that goes, if the same thing keeps happening to you over and over, the common element is YOU. And there is a lot of truth to that. But a lot of times, due

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-33880383282197474232009-08-27T15:21:00.007-04:002009-08-27T15:41:12.208-04:00

Prostitutes prove that women can be just as casual about sex as men. They're completely cornered in this regard, there's no way they can deny it. In fact women can be even more casual about it, capable of having sex many times a day. And it will not be nearly as physically draining for them, for obvious biological reasons.So many times you hear women say that a strictly sexual relationship is

Johnnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-3448938426496046722009-08-22T18:37:00.005-04:002009-08-22T18:45:07.819-04:00

The attention whore is a female who craves attention, usually male, because it affirms that she is sexy and desirable. This type of woman will usually surround herself with less attractive female friends because they boost her self-image. In turn, the less attractive female friends hang out with her for the same reason a dog might hang out under the dinner table, to get the tasty scraps it might

Johnnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-22824844316455306982009-08-19T02:02:00.004-04:002009-08-19T02:26:13.593-04:00

I have rarely connected with a woman anywhere else, and I've done hundreds of approaches in various daytime venues. It's extremely unlikely in my experience to meet girls anywhere but at clubs and through dating websites. I pondered the reasons for this for a long time, and eventually it occurred to me why this is.In this neck of the woods women are only open to meeting men in structured

Johnnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-15684463804182923552009-08-16T11:55:00.008-04:002009-08-16T12:20:55.600-04:00

Something I've become increasingly aware of is that women will put their blinders on when evaluating situations. They'll often adopt a stance where they'll make broad sweeping generalizations.Female pride is an amazing thing. In some ways it's worse than male ego, since a man is at least able to come to grips with the facts and adopt a scientific approach to get to the bottom of things (although

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-15423443192368340712009-07-19T18:54:00.003-04:002009-07-19T19:10:57.494-04:00

Arthur Schopenhauer, a German philosopher, had particular views on women, some of which are clearly outdated, but nonetheless very accurate in many regards. He had this to say on the subject of women:http://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Of_Women

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If a woman flakes on you for no good reason there is one thing you can do to remedy the situation.Tell her you just want to be friends.But before telling her this, mention that you started seeing some people, and would rather not complicate things by pursuing anything with her.Why do this? Because it can turn things to your favor.Assuming you have a shred of interest left in a girl after she

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-28811259239888203792009-07-08T11:21:00.011-04:002009-07-08T11:56:52.589-04:00

My response to a comment made (scroll down to see the original comment):The sosuave article is well written and motivating for sure. But the problem with it is that it essentially gives women a "pass" to do whatever they want, for the reason that the Don Juan will always find a way to break through. So she can cancel dates, flake, act disinterested, play hard-to-get etc, and that's cool because

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-64868267960872431542009-07-07T18:56:00.002-04:002009-07-07T19:05:08.802-04:00

In the world of online personals, women are usually swamped with responses by men. And the more responses a woman gets the less likely she is to meet someone out of those responses.But this doesn't make sense. Shouldn't a higher number of responses increase the odds that a woman will meet someone?Nope.Women are notorious for getting tons of messages from men but NEVER meeting any of them.What the

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-35587060842251823772009-07-04T12:48:00.001-04:002009-07-04T12:54:02.081-04:00

The typical western female's value system is aligned with avoiding responsibility and prioritizing emotion. They are not creatures of their word. They will say something "in the moment" and have a different view later on when their mood is different. They will usually exhibit this behaviour when there are no consequences for it. Obviously, they can't do this at a job since the consequence would

Johnnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-63329569813777360342009-06-21T02:21:00.000-04:002009-06-21T02:22:27.435-04:00

The politically correct culture of Toronto means that every minority & formerly oppressed group is catered to. This is done to avoid accusations of discrimination. It's a form of hypersensitivity, erring on the side of paranoia by going too far to the other side of the spectrum. The main reason Toronto is difficult for dating is because it's so darn politically correct, and extreme feminism is

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-3477401981218131072009-06-21T02:15:00.000-04:002009-06-21T02:16:20.577-04:00

As activism among men continues to increase it is inevitable that some women (and manginas) will try to discourage us by saying things like:Keep on keeping on boys with this notion of "taking the power back"...I hope you enjoy jerking off.My response:Actually, looking back at some of my experiences, the payoff just wasn't there, so jerking off would definitely have been the better option. And

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This is my response (in bold) to a woman's post on Toronto Craigslist:For most healthy women, sex is not a favour. We want it just as much as men do. For most of us with a healthy libido, daily would do quite nicely (except for 'that time of the month'... icky!). While men have generally been taught over the years to sow their wild oats as often as they can and with as many women as possible

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My response to a woman's post on Toronto Craigslist will answer this question. The title of her post is "1 womans tips to get laid". My response is in bold.Do NOT dart your pointy tongue in and out of my mouth like your trying to skewer something in there Ok, that's fairDo NOT slobber all over me. A luscious kiss is good. Feeling like your being kissed by a Saint Bernard is notFair enough Do NOT

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-11199026024817284422009-06-16T22:05:00.001-04:002009-06-16T22:10:04.310-04:00

I'm surprised my comment was posted given its "non-vanilla" sounding nature. I left a comment on one of Indie Girl's posts in which she describes one of her dating experiences. Her name is Sarah Rowland. She is 37 years old and is crossing the country in search of "Mr. Right". Here is the link: http://indiegirl.lavalife.com/2009/06/15/hot-to-trotIn your words, maybe lack of "immediate connection"

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I recently had the privilege of responding to a post a woman made on Toronto Craigslist:She said: If you can't afford to be a decent person, then don't ask ladies out for dinner.I said: So your assumption is that unless a guy asks a woman out to dinner he's not a decent person. Well I guess I'm a rotten person because I've never asked women out to dinner that I just met. Nice logic you have there

Johnnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-83059738280271225372009-06-09T22:27:00.002-04:002009-06-09T22:31:16.446-04:00

If a woman has issues, good looks won't help you, and since many women have issues, good looking guys are going to encounter the same problems as every other guy; problems such as uptightness, coldness, etc. The difference is that the problems might come out a bit later. So after she spends the first few minutes admiring your looks, you start running into the same problems other guys do. Also,

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-74748415473697681342009-06-09T22:25:00.002-04:002009-06-09T22:38:09.521-04:00

I was talking to a guy at the bar last weekend. He sees this attractive blonde and tells me jokingly, that he can't afford her. I laugh with him and tell him he should work within his means. But joking aside, this is a common mindset men have, feeling like women (especially attractive ones) are better than them. Even guys who spend lots of money to learn specialized pickup and seduction

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-10891215213542311472009-06-09T22:21:00.008-04:002009-06-09T22:48:54.417-04:00

This is the reflexive fear of peer disapproval women have for appearing "too easy". Given that this society in many ways still carries outdated puritan beliefs when it comes to sex (especially regarding female sexuality), the result is the "slut defense". This is basically a schizophrenic conflict, where some women want sex but don't want it (for fear of being labeled a slut). This forces them to

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-56523940303899101742009-06-07T16:58:00.000-04:002009-06-07T16:59:22.836-04:00

This is a term sometimes used to describe how popular someone is, either with men, women, or both. The idea is that when you are seen interacting in a positive way with other people, it boosts your attractiveness. This is true. When you see someone socializing with others, it makes them more approachable. This is especially true in a bar and club environment where most people (women) have their

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-41236866839524948812009-06-07T16:55:00.000-04:002009-06-07T16:57:55.333-04:00

In club environments, the cockblocker, also known as the protective "mother hen" is the one who interrupts romance before it ever materializes. She usually does this by taking her girlfriends under her wing to confer with them in the universal meeting room known as "the washroom". It seems that in clubs, women make all their major decisions in the washroom, usually following a cockblocking

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-79384004634089382302009-06-07T16:50:00.002-04:002009-06-07T17:11:27.104-04:00

The age-old puzzle: Women tell men to "be yourself" and when guys are themselves they don't get women. What the hell is going on? Well, women aren't lying when they are telling you this, but they aren't telling you the whole truth either. Being yourself only works if you are not acting in ways which make you look like you're not being yourself. Read that again if you have to. What this means is

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-23305971292207821522009-06-07T16:44:00.001-04:002009-06-07T16:44:38.009-04:00

If "game" works it's because you did it in a way that appears natural and looks like you didn't use game. But what's the point of that? It's much better to actually BE natural, which comes from being comfortable with who you are regardless of what anyone thinks. Furthermore, game implies you aren't being yourself and your attractiveness is artificially created. It's something that was rehearsed

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-6058599172305964412009-06-07T16:39:00.006-04:002010-07-29T02:19:37.706-04:00

Key understanding: Makeup and attitude go together.Have a good look at what you consider to be the hottest girls. Chances are they are wearing lots of makeup, and sexy clothes. Hot girls are pretty girls with lots of makeup, period. It's an artificial (enhanced) attractiveness, which usually means an artificial sense of self-worth. No woman is going to spend lots of time, effort and money looking

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-30790435925125750692009-06-06T17:04:00.003-04:002009-06-06T17:13:07.670-04:00

It can help, but it's not the essential "ingredient" in what makes a man attractive.What makes a man attractive are basically his mannerisms, the way he talks, and the way he looks. And if he has social status as well that's just a bonus. But in terms of what makes a woman want to fuck a man, social status is not the key requirement.In general, an effeminate man with high social status will be

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-28823297727523343142009-06-06T13:02:00.005-04:002009-06-06T13:12:59.646-04:00

Why do some women have a "laundry list" of requirements when it comes to meeting a man?It has to do with too much exposure to daytime TV and romanticized ideals. It's based on the delusional belief that you truly can have it all. And the result is a list that just keeps on growing.Women are always touting the importance of not settling and having everything they want. But are they coming from a

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-83241376263837013762009-06-05T19:27:00.012-04:002009-06-06T11:30:27.116-04:00

Attraction isn't the only reason women will have sex with someone. Some women will have sex with a man if it will give their social status a boost. So in this sense we have a form of prostitution, where sex is exchanged for social status instead of money.If you don't agree with this, ask yourself why groupies would want to hook up with rock stars. It's unlikely these are the only men they find

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-28284323404944222042009-06-05T14:01:00.003-04:002009-06-05T17:34:39.756-04:00

For many women, dating is a fun social activity, like shopping. It's a way for them to get out of the house and (maybe) connect with someone.Unfortunately, men don't generally see dating as a fun social activity. They see it as a necessary evil they have to put up with to have a chance with women. This is what they have been taught.When men date, they are generally going out of their way. When

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-68193332826725180622009-06-02T11:11:00.000-04:002009-06-02T11:12:29.534-04:00

Women, like men, know very quickly if they will have sex with someone. So going on dates, or trying to "win over" someone is pointless when things have already been decided early on. The only reason people do it is out of a need to adhere to a social norm. In other words, they feel compelled to do what society expects of them before getting intimate.Well screw that!If there's one thing that will

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-13701104818175552482009-06-02T11:10:00.003-04:002009-06-02T11:17:19.725-04:00

Logic is the most powerful way to overcome feelings of neediness where women are concerned. But also know that the irrational voice in your head telling you to constantly chase after pussy will never go away. However, it can be managed effectively. This is done using the following basic truths:#1 Understand that even if you get a girl, you'll just want another one right after. The desire to fuck

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-31682327830199459572009-06-02T11:10:00.001-04:002009-06-02T11:10:30.378-04:00

A post I wrote on my other blog explains this concept.

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A post I wrote on my other blog explains what to do when this happens.

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Let's say you're at the mall, or any other daytime venue. In these places people are generally not used to meeting other people. So meeting someone in these settings can be difficult. But there is something you can do to make it easier.If you see a girl you want to talk to, walk near her and take out your cell phone and pretend to talk to your friend (make sure the ringer is off). This lets her

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-22579673191788952262009-06-02T11:07:00.002-04:002009-06-02T11:08:52.423-04:00

Flirting can be a lot of fun and can create sexual tension. But know that flirting does not make a woman attracted to you. It only enhances attraction, so you still need something to work with. So if a woman is not interested to begin with, flirting won't work. It will be like pulling teeth.Flirting is also good if you want to test the waters to see if she is a sexual person. And if she is

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-25877348411323031772009-06-02T11:07:00.001-04:002009-06-02T11:07:50.970-04:00

Foreign women living in the city are generally the best, especially from countries like Russia and certain European countries. The important thing is that they didn't grow up in the city and spend their formative years here.The first thing you will notice is their friendliness, leading you to suspect they are not originally from the city, and of course you will be right.

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Being famous doesn't generate attraction. It might enhance it but it's not the direct cause. You can be attractive without being famous, but exposure from being famous will open many more doors. Plus if you are say, a rock star, a sexual (party) vibe is already established and sex is much more likely to be a byproduct of that. Clearly, Bill Gates does not fit into this category. He does not have

Johnnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-47600661208401513122009-06-02T11:05:00.003-04:002009-06-02T11:39:27.327-04:00

Going on long dates is unnecessary. Women always say they know right away if they would have sex with a man (it's true, and men are the same). But at the same time many women also say they need to get to know a man first before having sex. This exposes the lie.Another lie (or rather, myth) is that women are justified in waiting because it helps ensure the guy isn't "dirty". Their argument is, if

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-42167653779105107432009-06-02T11:05:00.001-04:002009-06-02T11:05:57.540-04:00

The things that attract people are basically the same everywhere. But what's different is the cultures in which people live, which influence what people actually end up doing. For example, women in downtown Toronto tend to be less friendly than women in neighbouring towns, such as Thornhill, Mississauga, Bolton.Different places might be similar, but definitely not the same.

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-85752754490460684532009-06-02T11:04:00.000-04:002009-06-02T11:05:00.081-04:00

This is a very informative website run by a woman: http://www.takeninhand.com

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The bedroom is the one place where you will find out how sexually great a woman is, or is not. It's a type of litmus test where all the potential hangups and insecurities are aired like dirty laundry. If a woman is confident and enjoys sex there will be no games and sex will happen quickly. But if she has doubts and was perhaps burned in the past she will resist having sex and won't want to

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No, you don't need game to get women. However, some guys use "game" (e.g. canned game) and are successful with it because the alternative is they have nothing to say, so they need something to work with. If you have no personality and poor social skills then game will help you. But if you already have a personality and social skills, game is redundant and unnecessary.Also, the notion of game

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-20618380448908358862009-06-02T11:02:00.001-04:002009-06-02T11:02:48.550-04:00

Let women know early on what your intentions are, sexually or otherwise. There is no downside to this. If you wait and decide to break the "news" to her later you might find out that she wasn't interested all along, and you will have wasted time. There is nothing gained by waiting. No points are gained. The probability of sex happening doesn't increase. Thinking otherwise is a myth.Also, all

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To answer this, let's look at what some consider to be examples of women testing men:• Women giving you a hard time• Women who deliberately try to make you angry because they enjoy male aggressionThese should not be considered normal or acceptable. They point to shortcomings in the women and have nothing to do with how the men should respond.Some people think women test men for alpha traits. The

Johnnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75777552755217590.post-53779473446114863782009-06-02T10:59:00.003-04:002009-06-02T11:57:55.482-04:00

Many women think that being strong and independent is a turn-off for men. This is not the case. What turns men off is bossy women who give people a hard time.A woman can be strong, know what she wants and then go after it. That's entirely a good thing. It comes from knowing who you are and what makes you truly happy. This mindset should be embraced.Men shouldn't tell women how to act, and women

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Women like this basically see men as a life-support system for a dildo. A woman like this wants you to please her and would likely criticize your performance if she doesn't get off the way she wants. But in reality, during sex you should be mostly focused on pleasing yourself. That's the basis of the male sex drive, to orgasm and get satisfied. And it just so happens that women generally want

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The best thing to do is avoid juvenile posturing where you're both trying to get the upper hand, while exercising the option of ending the date early.If you allow such a woman to take charge she may later express disappointment that you let her do that. Warning, this is a sign of a conflicted woman. On the one hand she wants to be in charge (feminist programming), but on the other hand she wants

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When you encounter a difficult woman the best thing to do is end the interaction early.Some women assume that it is the man's job to handle their bratty behaviour, and if he doesn't he's not man enough. Don't fall into the trap of trying to prove yourself to these women. They are not taking responsibility for their actions and prefer to blame the man for their shortcomings (which is a feminist

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It comes down to give and take. A post I wrote on my other blog describes this.

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There are a few women who talk openly about sex and are able to follow through. Usually these women are visibly aroused and you can tell they're good to go.But there is another category of woman who talks openly about sex. Unfortunately, these women are not able to follow through, and they outnumber the first group. You can identify these women by their matter-of-fact way of talking about sex.

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Women that work around men all day and who try to compete with them in the workplace are at risk of becoming masculinized. It's the nature of the environment. In their desperate effort to win at the "game" some of these women lose touch with their femininity and become domineering ice queens. As a result, their relationships with men are compromised. They won't respond well to flirting and tend

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There's an interesting social dynamic that commonly occurs in bars and clubs. The men generally have open body language towards the women, while the women generally have closed body language towards the men.The men tend to be facing towards the women, trying to establish eye contact, while the women are usually huddled in their groups trying to avoid eye contact.Basically this means that the men

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Many women mistakenly believe that the only reason guys lose interest after sex is because they gave it up too soon. While this is true sometimes, there are other reasons as well. One reason is that the men only wanted to have sex one time, and then move on. So witholding sex will not change this outcome. Another reason is, men lose interest because the women have difficult personalities. Let's

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